in reality, all of this has been a total load of old bollocks
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Postby Jimbo » 09 Mar 2020, 22:01

I pretty much ask my wife to tell me what to do and I will do it. For example she will bundle up the garbage (burnable, plastic, recyclable, etc.) and ask me to take it down to the building's garbage room. But then somehow I will fuck up even that simple chore so in the end she asks me to do fewer and fewer things. I'm not a zen master but I do try to keep my annoyance under control when she runs the vacuum cleaner around my ankles while I fiddle around on the computer. :x

But I do some of the cooking and dish washing. But if I use a hand towel to dry dishes again she will have to take over the washing.
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Re: Chores

Postby Flower » 11 Mar 2020, 13:00

Cooking ~ Me .. I'm better, calmer and create less of a mess.
Gardening ~ Me .. I love it.
Shopping ~ Shared
Dealing with tradesmen, repair people, etc. ~ Him .. I don't ask the "correct" silly questions or bother them enough.
Cleaning ~ Shared but mainly me. I'm less anal and quicker.
Trash ` Me .. I'm more organized and it's easier for me.

Stressing out over the Coronavirus ~ Him .. I don't allow it to drive me crazy.
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