Dilemma solvers welcome -poll

[BARON CORNY DOG]

It was

Anyway, the 'let it go' gang has won.

Thanks for the advice, all!

Add the loss to the cost of your house and soak some other sucker for it.

[Minnie the Minx]

Still alive and has just come into an inheritance windfall!!!!!!

[Minnie the Minx]

She's gone

[Robert]

She's gone

You’re in her will?

[Minnie the Minx]

I don't think so. She's left a young widow too. All very sad.

[sloopjohnc]

I had a co-worker good friend who got in debt trouble. He had creditors calling him and I leant him $500 to get one or two off his back. He understood it was just a loan.

I worked with him for two years and never mentioned it and I got the sneaky sense it wasn't going to get paid back.

Around Xmas time three years later after the loan, I told him to consider the loan an Xmas present. I saw him on and off out of work a few times during the ensuing years.

I actually recruited the guy to work for another company I was at around 2012 and worked with him for about a year where we worked very closely together. Years have gone on and he now makes way more money than me. I'm not angry, but I thought he could be a mensch if he recalled it and offered to repay it since he makes so much more now. Maybe he doesn't remember it.

[Quaco]

I had a co-worker good friend who got in debt trouble. He had creditors calling him and I leant him $500 to get one or two off his back. He understood it was just a loan.

I worked with him for two years and never mentioned it and I got the sneaky sense it wasn't going to get paid back.

Around Xmas time three years later after the loan, I told him to consider the loan an Xmas present. I saw him on and off out of work a few times during the ensuing years.

I actually recruited the guy to work for another company I was at around 2012 and worked with him for about a year where we worked very closely together. Years have gone on and he now makes way more money than me. I'm not angry, but I thought he could be a mensch if he recalled it and offered to repay it since he makes so much more now. Maybe he doesn't remember it.

Or maybe offered to do something nice for you, send you on a nice dinner for two, or something, even if the total is less than $500.

Very sorry to hear about your friend, Anna.

[Davey the Fat Boy]

You did a nice thing. Karma owes you one.